Shopping for someone special is really difficult, you want to find a gift that the receiver would actually use or something that they always wanted – it’s hard! The problem becomes even more difficult when the gift under consideration is on a pricier side.
As tricky as it sounds, knowing where exactly to begin makes the process somewhat easier. You don't have to feel overwhelmed when planning to give a jewellery gift. All you need to know is what to consider, what to avoid, and most notably, what the recipient likes.
To make things a bit easier, and to put the enjoyment back into gifting ornaments, here are few pieces of advice. Stick to the dos and don’ts and you’ll sail through rather smoothly!
The Dos of Jewellery Gifting
Do preserve the proof of payment - When you are buying jewellery for gifting purpose, always ensure that the website or store has an exchange policy and that the recipient has the option of exchanging the piece if they don’t like it, if it doesn’t fit, or if in case they are allergic to that particular metal. There are many reasons why they might require exchange or return of the jewellery, so keep your options open.
Do analyse her style – Try to read her taste in jewellery, easiest way is to start is by reading her choices in fashion because generally both are related. If she follows latest trends and fashion then opt for something bold, like a breast plate necklace or an ear cuff or a classy statement piece. On the other hand if she has a more traditional or modest style, best stick with something simpler.
Do keep quality in mind – Don’t go blindfolded into the market, before buying a jewellery gift do your own research and do keep quality as one of your biggest priorities. Check the “what’s and how’s” of the material. Is it sterling silver, gold, or brass or if it's a precious metal check if it is plated or pure. Another aspect to check is the stones, pay attention to the cut as well as clarity.
Do make a cautious choice – Gifting a piece of jewellery isn't a decision that you make on an impulse. Regardless of your price range, it must be a significant gift that you relished in giving and the receiver relished in receiving. The jewels women adorn reflect their personal style therefore finding a perfect piece might take a while, but be patient and don't rush it. All said and done –jewellery is simply not a last minute gift!
Do focus on their taste, not your own - buying anything for yourself comes easy - the tricky part is to find someone else's preferences. While you're searching for jewellery, you may feel tempted to drift towards something you’d buy for yourself; however the recipient of your gift might not have the same tastes.
The Don’ts of Jewellery Gifting
Don’t fail to see what she likes - when buying jewellery there are so many options to choose from. Shall we buy rose gold or perhaps white gold, would she like a statement necklace? Remember don’t make any assumptions if you are not sure about what she may or may not like consult one of her friends or a family member if that also sends you on a dead end then simply go for a classic or traditional piece.
Don’t buy the first piece you see – Buying a jewellery gift is definitely a big decision, so take your own sweet time to select the gift and choose it with care. If you are trying to get the perfect gift at the eleventh hour you will probably grab a piece that just isn’t perfect for her, so the mantra to find an ideal piece of jewellery is take some time and don’t rush anything. This way you’ll find something that suits her, and it will be seen as a meaningful gesture that she will treasure for forever.
Don’t overspend – With so many options available in the market it’s recommended to stay in the budget. Before going to make a purchase first do some research on the web and see the price range of available pieces. At times there are some interesting offers and sales going on in many stores, you can take benefit out of these deals as well.
Don't Buy on a whim - Impulsive decisions about a big purchase like a jewellery gift will only bring about regret. If you want to give jewellery as a gift, reflect on it. First you need to decide what is your budget then you need to settle on what style or brand of jewellery you want to buy and finally you need to consider the occasion on which you're giving jewellery. When you have collected your thoughts on these three constraints, you are all set to start browsing. Bottom-line don’t hurry - the ideal gift is out there.
Don’t be a miser – While we are not endorsing going extravagant with your gift, still trying to save a buck or two while buying a perfect gift isn’t going to cut it! You have your budget and you must stick to it but be cautious while making your budget; after all it’s not every day that you gift some a gleaming piece of trinket that represents your affection for them.
Don't give jewellery as a make-up gift – More often than not, jewellery and flowers are given as a gift to make-up or just to say you are sorry. The fact is buying jewellery to make amends is a cliché and it is not just uninspired, but also unadvised. A request for forgiveness must come by means of communication, not by means of gemstones and metals.
Don’t fail to notice how long you have known the recipient – It’s a common perception that jewellery is the perfect gift when you want to convey your love and affection to someone special. Yet, it's important to consider how long you have known the recipient and what is your intimacy level with them before leaping for a silver jewellery gift. While it is a lovely gesture, it might turn awkward or overwhelming for the receiver to accept a jewellery gift in the wrong circumstance.
